Why is Hijab a matter of choice and should be celebrated, but Sindoor or Karwa Chauth a symbol of patriarchy? Kindly elaborate @FeminismInIndia. Why this double standards?
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Mufti Tariq Masood of Jamiatur Rasheed-Karachi explains in this video that the requirement for Hijab flows directly from an authority that's higher than even the Prophet of Allah (Peace Be Upon Him). It's Allah the Almighty Himself. And "it's only for the benefit and protection of women".
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Dr. Farhat Hashmi of International Islamic Research Centre, the feminist scholar of Islam from Pakistan, has had a lot to say on Hijab, as evident in a number of videos she posted on YouTube.
She says in this video: "The concept of Hijab in Quraan has it that women should hide their beauty from men, so that the women do not come to any harm." ------------
'Feminism in India' reminds me of the thumbs-down this magazine gave to the "patriarchal" Raksha Bandhan as well as Kavita Krishnan's exposé of RSS' appropriation of Raksha Bandhan for its "communal campaign" calling "Hindu men to protect Hindu women from Muslim men."
The jottings below were made some weeks ago.
The bottom paras show why I suspect Hindu-Manuvadi-Brahmanical-Communal-Fascist-Patriarchal RSS, after destroying India, might also have begun to creep into the Islamic-progressive society of Pakistan.
May Allah save us!
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The "retrograde" and "degenerate" views of the Rashtriya Swamsevak Sangh (RSS) make them privilege "sibling love" over "romantic love," Shutapa Paul wrote in an article published in DailyO in June 2017. Hence their predilection for the festival of Raksha Bandhan, which is of course the cover Sanghis need in their campaign to divide Hindus and Muslims -- indeed an "insurance" cover "preventing romantic liaisons among young Muslims and Hindus".
"Rakhi as a symbol of protection among brothers and sisters is yet another weapon aimed at vilifying romantic love across religious lines," wrote Paul.
Having learnt about the RSS plan that its Muslim wing would organize Raksha Bandhan celebrations in 12 states, Shutapa Paul was "pleasantly surprised" only to realise later that the RSS’ programme was "for Muslim girls to tie Rakhi on Hindu boys and vice versa"
"This is not a celebration but segregation, a marking of human territory, forcing both communities to literally draw the line of human bonding. Sibling love is fine you see but not romantic love. One must hand it to the RSS to come up with novel ways of further dividing the populace."
Under cover of Raksha Bandhan, the RSS actually intended to fight against "Love Jihad".
So Shutapa Paul gives a clear thumbs down to this'bandhan' -- and a clear thumbs up to that'bonding'.
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Writing in the same magazine around the same time, Gunjeet Sra sees an even deeper problem in Raksha Bandhan; she calls it the "brotherly embrace of oppression". "It would be a convenient lie to deny the fact that the festival has its roots in patriarchy," she declares.
Sra says she does not have a male sibling, but thinks that if she really had one "the agents of patriarchy would have been closer home, and maybe I would have been repressed."
"I would still have my voice but it would be a different voice."
The oppression Gunjeet Sra might have suffered if she had a brother makes one shudder!
So Gunjeet Sra also gives a thumbs down to this'bandhan' (and an implicit thumbs up to that'bonding').
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Writing for FeminismInIndia.com in Sep. 2018, Akshita Prasad applauds AIB for making a post on Facebook about the "inevitable hypocrisy" of Raksha Bandhan "owing to its patriarchal roots" -- in keeping with the comedy group's "tradition of not condoning patriarchy". She interprets AIB's Facebook post as making the point that "the reason women are unsafe in this country is due to patriarchy and for the same patriarchy to birth a tradition which allows its beneficiaries, that is men, to protect women, whose lives patriarchy negatively affects, is audacious and fatuous."
"... In the form it (Raksha Bandhan) has historically existed, it is patriarchal, sexist, and toxic, and it is time we do away with the underlying idea of men protecting women that formed its basis," she writes.
So Prasad also gives a thumbs down to this'bandhan' (but does not juxtapose it with that'bonding').
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The AIB Facebook post declared: "Patriarchy is the sole reason why women aren't safe in the first place and the same patriarchy has made Raksha Bandhan a festival about a brother protecting his sister." AIB exhorts people (presumably male siblings): "Do not protect her, rather try and change the system with her, a system where she is safe to begin with."
In keeping with their noble vocation, the AIB couched its message (that Akshita Prasad approved and lauded) in 'hip' language with phrases like "fuck around" and "jizzing to oneself".
(In the unlikely case you don't know the meanings of these two phrases, look them up yourself. Hint: both phrases convey an activity that came to characterize the 'controversies' in which AIB members subsequently found themselves.)
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A year after that social media post, three AIB members, Utsav Chakraborty, Gursimran Khamba, and co-founder Tanmay Bhat, found themselves facing 'MeToo'accusations of sexual harassment and sexual misconduct -- and the group distanced itself from the three. I don't know if Akshita Prasad of FeminismInIndia.com found any "inevitable hypocrisy" or "patriarchy" in the alleged conduct of the three AIB members. (Or whether Shutapa Paul and Gunjeet Sra, for that matter, would find the conduct of AIB members any less hypocritical than Raksha Bandhan itself).
You never know, given how much Akshita Prasad cares for 'anti-patriarchy' messaging; she obviously could not have guessed the sincerity of AIB's Facebook message from, say, its 'hip' phrasing.
(Shutapa Paul and Gunjeet Sra are women who seem to care a lot for that'bonding'. So I am not going to second-guess whether their conceptions of that'bonding' might include the possibility of the kind of conduct that the three AIB members have been accused of.)
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Google the word 'Raksha Bandhan' and you can find dozens of articles -- published over several years -- finding fault with Raksha Bandhan, even expressing loathing for the festival and calling for forsaking participation. So the campaign against Raksha Bandhan is well under way.
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In an article titled 'Rape and Rakhi – Patriarchal-Communal Narratives', published in Kafila.online in Aug. 2014, Kavita Krishnan, the Polit Bureau member of CPI(Marxist-Leninist), wrote: "Brothers are expected to keep their sisters under surveillance, and there is tremendous social sanction for their role in preventing the sister from pursuing love affairs with the man from the ‘wrong’ caste or community". "Rakhi, then, has all the elements available ready-to-hand, suitable for the communal campaign of the RSS that calls on Hindu men to protect Hindu women from Muslim men," Kavita Krishnan wrote.
Krishnan cares a lot for "love affairs," specially "interfaith" relationships of "Hindu-Muslim" variety, as reflected in the quantity of commentary citing her on things like Valentine's Day.
“[It] is no longer just an annual Valentine's Day affair, but instead organized everyday violence against women's autonomy and interfaith relationships," Krishnan is cited as saying in an article, 'The War on Valentine's Day in India', published in Feb. 2018 in The Atlantic.
One of Krishnan's tweets about the killing of Ankit Saxena -- the young man murdered by the family of his Muslim girlfriend for having that affair -- read: "After son’s murder, Ankit Saxena's parents plans to help interfaith couples. What remarkable and beautiful people." ---------
It's unclear how exactly Ankit Saxena's parents would find (if at all they would) "interfaith couples" in order to "help" them, much less how exactly this "help" would be rendered.
(Would they ask for the "faith" of each person making up a "couple" they meet in public parks and bazars in order to decide their "inter-faith-ness" so that they can "help" them? First determining whether two people make a "couple" would be quite a job in itself!)
Kavita Krishnan, of course, can always draw on CPI(ML) cadre to find out not just "couples," but also the "faith" and "inter-faith-ness" of those "couples" so that she can "help" them.
(It seems CPI-ML cadre failed to discover Ankit Saxena and his Muslim girlfriend in time in order to "help" them or save him from being hacked to death by her father Akbar Ali. But then Krishnan can take heart in the fact that the RSS also failed to use the poisonous festival of Raksha Bandhan to turn Ankit and his girlfriend into Bhai-Behan.)
Since "faith" and "inter-faith-ness" is pretty central to the work of this Marxist-Leninist fighter for equality and freedom, I am sure Kavita Krishnan would be an asset in a place like Pakistan where "faith" is everywhere (not much "inter-faith-ness" though, except frequent reports of abduction of 'Hindu' girls and their forced marriages with 'Muslim' men). It's a shame that Pakistan's "faith" has never allowed much of Marxism and Leninism to grow, but I have no doubt Pakistan needs people like Krishnan, especially because "patriarchy" and "communalism" are rearing their ugly head there too (which is surprising considering there isn't much of RSS and festivals like Raksha Bandhan in Pakistan).
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Pakistan's ARY News reported on 12 Jan. 2019, for instance, that the University of Agriculture-Faisalabad (UAF) has decided to observe this year's Valentine's Day (February 14) as "Sisters' Day" with an aim to "promote culture and Islamic traditions among the youth". The report quotes UAF Vice Chancellor Zafar Iqbal Randhawa as saying: “We are enriched in our culture, norms, and Islamic values. We are mulling distributing scarves, shawls and gowns printed with UAF insignia among female students on the day.”
“In our culture, women are more empowered and earn due respect as sisters, mothers, daughters and wife. We are forgetting our culture and western culture has taken root in our society. Nations that forget their cultural values are diminished from the map of the world,"Randhawa said.
Krishnan would naturally be dismayed by Randhawa's shockingly regressive view.
It's unclear what Randhawa means by "eastern culture". Since Pakistan is 96 per cent Muslim, he probably means "middle-eastern culture" even though his "Sisters' Day" plan has an 'eerie' similarity to the "patriarchal-communal" festival of Raksha Bandhan.
The Nation reportedthat the UAF celebrated 14 Feb 2019 by “distributing 800 headscarves to females as a gesture of respect from their alma mater and to promote eastern values in the society”. -------------
It's a very disturbing thought but voice I must it.
Can there possibly be some 'Brahmanic' influence on Pakistan, which is 96.4 per cent Muslim and largely 'Hindu'-free with an insignificantly tiny number of evil Brahmins?
Kavita Krishnan will hope not, even though one cannot completely rule out the possibility.
Nor can one completely rule out the possibility of RSS somehow being able to smuggle the virus of "patriarchy" and "communalism" in the predominantly Islamic-progressive society of Pakistan.
It's pretty weird but why would Muslim men of Pakistan need "Sisters' Day" to protect Muslim women from other Muslim men?
I am sure we will know a satisfactory answer when Kavita Krishnan or CPI(ML) comes up with a more rigorous analysis of this awkward situation.
Until then let's lighten the mood by this tweet on the ARY News report posted by Pakistani journalist Naila Inayat. ------------